29 May

Tuesday 29 May 2012

Photo: Sky News

A law banning so-called “homosexual propaganda” throughout Russia is to be debated in the Russian parliament next month. For the seventh year in a row the gay pride parade has been banned in Moscow but activists challenge the authorities by taking to the streets anyway.

Many Pride goers are detained for wearing badges bearing pink triangles. One woman was arrested for holding a packet of coloured felt tip pens, a replacement for the banned rainbow symbol of gay pride.

Ed Balls. Photo: This is London

Ed Balls, the shadow chancellor today revealed that his uncle was gay and would have liked the right to a same-sex marriage as he spoke out in support of the campaign for gay marriage. Mr Balls said gay couples should be able to marry in church. He was proud that Labour had advanced gay rights while in power by repealing Section 28, equalising the age of consent and introducing civil partnerships. “And now we should go further and say to people regardless of their sexuality, people who want to get married should be able to do. Twenty years ago my uncle came out in his fifties as gay — and he died, I’m afraid, before he and his long-term partner could have a civil partnership. But actually in our family we would have liked him to have gone further and to have got married. It’s what he would have wanted, I believe.” Mr Balls said he would not name his late uncle because he wanted to maintain the family’s privacy.

A 2004 picture of Rev White in happier times. MLK Duluth

The Rev. Oliver White, 69, watched most of his congregation leave after he voiced his support for gay marriage. He is now at risk of losing his church, unless he can collect enough donations to keep the doors open. He needs to raise $200,000 by June 30. As of last week he had raised $13,000.

A black leader at the helm of a predominantly black church, White — who marched for racial equality during the Civil Rights era, stood up for gay rights in 2005 by joining a majority of delegates from across the country who voted to support gay marriage. He returned to his congregation the following Sunday and explained his decision. Almost immediately he saw church membership plummet. Within weeks he lost two-thirds of his followers, and now a Sunday sermon draws at most about 20 people. His church is not a “gay church” but welcomes everyone. He says he doesn’t regret taking his stand, even if it ultimately means the church will be no more. “I’ve often said if one person has been turned around, if their thinking has been turned around, and they are no longer homophobic, and they can reach out and love their brothers and their sisters as they love themselves, unconditionally, without labeling them in any way, then losing the church will not be in vain.”

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22 May

Tuesday 22 May 2012

Ravi. Photo: Time

Dharun Ravi, 20, yesterday was sent to jail for just 30 days for the death of Tyler Clementi, his room mate. He could have gone to prison for 10 years and been deported from the country after being found unanimously guilty in March of 15 charges, including invasion of privacy, interfering with a witness, tampering with evidence and the hate crime of “bias intimidation”. Despite saying that “society has every right to expect zero tolerance for intolerance” and criticising Ravi for his lack of apology, the judge angered gay-rights campaigners with the short jail term.

Rev. Charles Worley called for gays and lesbians to be placed in a form of concentration camp. Catawba Valley Citizens Against Hate says it plans a peaceful protest on Sunday outside Providence Road Baptist Church, where Rev. Charles Worley delivered his controversial homily on May 13.

Gay England football fans travelling to Ukraine for Euro 2012 have been warned to keep a low profile for their own safety, after Kiev’s first ever gay pride parade was cancelled on Sunday amid fears of violence from far-right thugs. Television pictures showed Svyatoslav Sheremet, head of the Gay Forum of Ukraine, being kicked and jumped on by a group of men after the event was stopped.

Amnesty International said police in the capital advised organisers to abandon the march just 30 minutes before it was due to start after 500 ultra-right football hooligans had gathered. Thousands of England fans will travel to the eastern European country for Euro 2012, which begins on June 8.

Welcome to the summer of no love.

However some positive news from Britain’s National Health Service. Same-sex couples will be given the same rights as heterosexual couples under guidance issued by the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence.

The recommendation follows implementation of the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008 which abolished requirement for fertility clinics to take into account a child’s need for a father or a male role model before agreeing to treatment. Gay couples or single women now need only show they can provide “supportive parenting”.

Demand from gay couples paying privately for fertility services has boomed, and the number of lesbian couples undergoing IVF rose from 178 in 2007 to 417 in 2010.
One cycle of IVF can cost up to £8,000 privately. Because success rates are low – typically 20 per cent for a 38-year-old – couples can spend tens of thousands on treatment.

Many same-sex couples receive “outright discrimination” from health authorities, commented some gay spokespeople today, while anti-gay commentators said it amounted to a Government-backed attempt to “rewrite biology”.

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21 May

Monday 21 May 2012

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Homophobic thugs beat up Svyatoslav Sheremet, head of Gay-Forum of Ukraine, in Kiev. He was attacked after telling the media that the first gay parade in the Ukrainian capital of Kiev was cancelled because of safety concerns.

Looks like he was right.

Gay Activist sends Mr Sheremet best wishes for a speedy recovery from the attack.

We wish it was safe here in the UK but sadly it is no safer than places like Ukraine. A 19 year old teenager who has not been named was the victim of an unprovoked attack in Worcester city centre when he was subjected to homophobic abuse by a group of five men who then punched him on the back of the head while he was walking down The Avenue towards the Cornmarket car park at about 12.45am on Friday after leaving a nightclub.

He said he woke up feeling “a bit low on confidence” and had a small lump on his head as well as a bit of a headache. “They just kept taunting me and one of them got really lairy and went for a swing for no reason,” said the teenager, who does not want to be named. “Then one of his other friends punched me to the back of the head. I was a bit scared and a bit intimidated. Generally it doesn’t bother me but as it was a group of people it did. I did feel really small and it was completely out of the blue.”

Gap

The US clothing retailer GAP has released a new advertising campaign in Los Angeles, which features a gay couple embracing under one t-shirt, and has angered the anti-gay group, One Million Moms.

Gay Activist wishes that One Million Moms would read the preceding two stories and wonder what they would feel like if that happened to their son.

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15 May

Tuesday 15 May 2012

Tracy Thorne-Begland when he was a US Navy Pilot. Gay Influence

Virginia’s General Assembly rejected gay Tracy Thorne-Begland for a position as a judge after conservatives argued that his support for gay marriage and challenge to the military’s now-defunct “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy made him unfit for the bench. The House of Delegates voted 33 to 31, with 10 abstentions, to make Richmond prosecutor Tracy Thorne-Begland a General District Court judge in Richmond. He had needed 51 votes in the 100-member chamber to win appointment. “He holds himself out as being married,” said Del. Robert G. Marshall, who is running for U.S. Senate. Noting that gay marriage is not legal in Virginia, he said that Thorne-Begland’s “life is a contradiction to the requirement of submission to the constitution.”

Dallas Kilponen/Sydney Morning Herald

Retired High Court judge Michael Kirby told a Senate inquiry into gay marriage earlier this month that despite the heights he had reached in his career, he remained a second-class citizen because he could not marry his partner, Johan van Vloten. A reader wrote: ”It seems that all Kirby has to do is to raise his tired old hat and he gets a free kick from the Herald.” writes the SMH’s Readers Editor, Judy Prisk who goes on to look at how to achieve balance in the coverage of gay marriage.

There’s only one way to achieve balance. Have equality in marriage. Next…

Out in the Sticks publicity photograph: The Hereford Times

Organisers of the Out In The Sticks festival in Herefordshire say more needs to be done to overcome prejudice in the county. It is run by Hereford’s Courtyard Centre for the Arts and Herefordshire Rainbow Forum. Martyn Green, from the venue, hopes the festival, in its fifth year, will raise awareness and said it was “by no means exclusively for LGBT people”.

The programme of films, plays and concerts continues until Saturday. Mr Green said: “We’ve seen audiences grow and people coming out with confidence. We’ve still got some way to go – we’re not Birmingham, Brighton or London. In Herefordshire we have small pockets of those communities and it’s about giving them the confidence that there isn’t going to be prejudice.”

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11 May

Friday 11 May 2012

Messages to the Home Office consultation computer system from people who tried to register their views using a link from the website of the Coalition For Marriage, which campaigns against gay marriage, have been automatically rejected as spam by anti-hacking software, which has treated 4,100 anti-gay responses – just over 40 per cent of the total – as spam. The Home Office last night blamed an “IT glitch” which it said had now been rectified and insisted that the responses had not been lost. The sheer number of messages passing from one source may have triggered software designed to detect spam emails. Opponents of gay marriage are claiming that the consultation is a “sham”.

Photograph by Matthew Cavanaugh/Getty Images

Bloomberg Business Week notes that political infighting over gay marriage in America is actually hurting business. Never mind business, Bloomberg, what about the lives of gay couples in America where one partner faces deportation because their gay marriage outside the US is not recognised? Wouldn’t it be better for business (and everyone else) if the matters were resolved?

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5 May

Saturday 5 May 2012

Brian Paddick. Photo: Guardian

Commiserations to Brian Paddick, the Liberal Democrat candidate for Mayor of London, who was beaten into fourth place by the Green Party Candidate.

Dan Savage. Photo: It Gets Better

“Some of the most vicious, anti-Christian, anti-truth people in the world are the radical, homosexual activists, and among them, not many are as vile as Dan Savage,” rants Renew America.

Wow, he must have really got up their nose. Who is Dan Savage, by the way? “Savage is a twisted, sex columnist who started the “It Gets Better Project,” a propaganda tool targeting kids, which pushes the homosexual lifestyle on them under the guise of an “anti-bullying” campaign.”

Oh, that Dan Savage. The one who is saving the lives of children tortured by bullying. The Christian right would rather they all die, would they?

AGI Italy’s English language service brings us more enlightenment on our condition, this time from the Scouts wing of the Catholic Church.

“Homosexuals “have a problem with themselves” due to “their cerebral make-up” and need psychologists’ help says the Association of Catholic Guides and Scouts of Italy. The publication of documents from AGESCI’s latest convention on the topic of homosexuality is destined to create a heated debate. “It is evident,” the documents state, “that a person who has always been homosexual, as a deeply rooted tendency, is having trouble with their own gender and not just with sex in general. A homosexual individual generally has problems not just on the social level but also with themselves. It is also a hormonal factor and therefore of cerebral make-up.”

A Tennessee high school journalism teacher has outraged the community after publishing a pro-gay article of a graduating student in the yearbook, reports Gay Star News. The article, ‘It’s OK to be Gay’, by an anonymous student staff writer of Lenoir City High School, profiles the experiences of American gay student Zac Mitchell and describes his coming out and how he dealt with being bullied, cross-dressing and being ‘hit on by straight guys’.

A school board member is calling for the immediate dismissal and a police investigation of James Yoakley, the journalism teacher that published the article. According to students, petitions from parents were being circulated around the school urging graduates to tear the page from their yearbook as a sign of protest or to deny Mitchell the right to attend the ceremony.

Isn’t acceptance wonderful.

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3 May

Thursday 3 May 2012

Richard Grenell

Openly gay spokesman Richard Grenell left the Mitt Romney campaign because he was ‘silenced’ while his boss refused to defend him against personal attacks. Mr Grenell, Mr Romney’s former foreign policy and national security spokesman, felt his reputation was being destroyed by far right criticism that he would advocate for gay marriage inside a Romney White House. Mr Grenell resigned after less than a month on the job and cited ‘personal reasons’ as the cause for his departure.

A gay bar in Copenhagen has confirmed it has barred straight couples from kissing there. Jobbe Joller, the founder of Homosocialt Fællesskab, said a bouncer at the Never Mind bar in the Danish capital told a woman in his party she could not kiss her boyfriend. Confronting the bouncer, he said: “The bouncer replied that it was unacceptable to conduct in that kind of behaviour at a gay place and that Never Mind receives a lot of emails from its gay guests concerning the high number of straight guests that visit the bar. I asked him if it was not the same as saying that black people are not allowed to kiss in Never Mind, but he disagreed and told me that the owner of Never Mind may decide who can kiss and who can’t kiss in the bar.”

So now you know. Never mind.

Averil Power. Photo: Eamonn Farrell/Photocall Ireland

The Irish Government has blocked a move to protect gay doctors and teachers from being fired due to their sexual orientation. Justice Minister Alan Shatter claimed Fianna Fáil senator Averil Power’s Employment Equality Bill may not have been able to pass “constitutional muster”. Ms Power said appropriate wording could have been worked out at committee stage, but the move was voted down. The Gay and Lesbian Equality Network described the Government’s attitude as “very disappointing”. Ms Power told the Seanad provisions in law that could see schools, hospitals and other institutions sack staff because of their orientation “serve as a daily chill factor for gay lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people”.

Di Natale. Photo: Getty

Udinese striker Antonio Di Natale has stated that the taboo of homosexuality in professional football will not be broken any time soon. “Professionally, I admire Prandelli and am fond of the man, but I disagree with him [on homosexuality],” Di Natale told La Repubblica. “Breaking the taboo of homosexuality in football is difficult, almost impossible. I wonder how the fans would react? I’m sorry, but I disagree with the choice to go public, at least in football because privacy is very important. Our world, in some respects, is very complex.”

“You are here: Home » Moral Depravity”, says Radiance Weekly, helpfully. They mean us. Oh, yes they do!

“Homosexuality is a mental disorder and psychological perversion which psychologists call a sadomasochistic perversion – an act of changing good and right into bad and wrong. The result of this act is very dangerous: 1. The perversion of justice 2. The perversion of the truth 3. Sexual diseases like gonorrhoea and syphilis, which kill the patient slowly and painfully.”

Wow. Would you like some more of this enlightenment? Okay then, brace yourselves.

“A study shows that gay persons are mentally retarded and they hate children. Those who need children either adopt or get them through heterosexual unions. It is proved that sexual permissive practices spread deadly diseases like HIV and AIDS. It is discovered that after 1960 the rates of sexually transmitted diseases rose sharply. In 1993, Simon Le Vay who studied the mental status of homosexuals and heterosexuals found an important difference in the size of the hypothalamus, a part of the brain that regulates hormones. Genetics also influence such an attitude. A study on 33 pairs of homosexuals revealed that they had a distinctive genetic pattern involving X Chromosomes. There are clinics rendering service to homosexuals who are mentally disorder. In India, there are seven lakh homosexuals affected with venereal diseases.
Stop this menace or face consequences, may be destruction of the world.”

What a load of piffle.

Tony Whyte

Gay Activist is sad to note the passing of Tony Whyte of Sheffield who has died age 84.

“From the late 1950s to the ’70s his limp-wristed camp act, long before the days of Larry Grayson and John Inman, was the talk of the town. His catchphrase was, ‘Shut your gob, Tony’s speaking’. Glasgow-born, Tony’s real name was Frederick York Clark Wight. He spent much of his childhood in the Fulwood Cottage Homes orphanage in Sheffield, reflecting: “I was born of good parents but on the wrong side of the blanket.” National Service saw Tony stationed in Germany and Austria with the Army Medical Corps, then he signed up for six years as a medic in the Navy. Out on Civvy Street he worked first for a tailor in Attercliffe, standing in the doorway to attract custom, later becoming the ‘singing waiter’ at the now demolished Rotherham House pub, near Castle Market. Later he worked at Firvale Infirmary – now the Northern General Hospital – as a geriatric staff nurse.”

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25 April

Wednesday 25 April 2012

AP Photo of Monday’s Miss Nicaragua Gay Parade

Alexey Danichev/RIA Novosti

Ivan Kharchenko, a gay teenager in Moscow region was put away in a drug clinic for 12 days by his irate traditionalist father before he was released by his friends (pictured) who beseiged the facility.

Kharchenko publicly admitted his homosexuality at his 16th birthday earlier this year. The news did not shock his classmates, but devastated some of his relatives. His grandmother tricked Kharchenko into going to a “witch” who unsuccessfully attempted to exorcize the “spirit of homosexuality” from him. Failing magic, his father ordered the teenager to go to the drug clinic and left him there, allegedly against his will. “I’d rather have you disabled or a vegetable than gay,” said the boy’s father.

Towleroad

Gay activists have been prosecuted and fined for the promotion of homosexuality in Russia’s Arkhangelsk Region, the regional prosecutor’s office reported on its website on Wednesday.

Prosecutors in Arkhangelsk argued that since passage of the law, social movement activists have repeatedly committed actions aimed at promoting homosexuality and “demonstrated the typical content of posters around the building of children’s library.” One person was fined 2,000 rubles ($68), and the other offenders (their number was not disclosed) were punished with fines of 1,800 rubles ($61).

Equalities Minister Lynne Featherstone has pledged there will be ‘no risk of successful legal challenge’ against religious bodies who are unable to marry gay couples as a result of the government’s gay civil marriage proposals.

“It would not be religious organisations, but the United Kingdom Government in the dock in Strasbourg. We respect and understand the concerns of religious organisations, and we want to work closely with them to give them that reassurance. Just as we were able to reassure Members of this House and the House of Lords about civil partnerships being registered on religious premises to the point where they felt that they could let that pass, we will do the same in this case.”

Stand by to be stabbed in the back.

Hillary Clinton told an audience at Syracuse University that many foreign leaders in Africa and Asia consider gay rights and indeed womens’ rights to be a “totally foreign concept.”

“You can imagine the conversations that I have,” she said. “In parts of Africa and Asia, gay rights is just a totally foreign concept. … I mean, the first response is, ‘We don’t have any of those here.’ Second response is, ‘If we did, we would not want to have them and would want to get rid of them as quickly as possible. And it’s your problem, United States of America, that you have so many of those people. So don’t come here and tell us to protect the rights of people we don’t have or that we don’t want.’ It’s a very difficult conversation because it’s just not been one that people have had up until now.”

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24 April

Tuesday 24 April 2012

Photo of Dr Mike Davidson: Peter Ould

The man behind the “Post Gay” campaign which has been banned from London transport is revealed as South African born Dr Mike Davidson, 57, of Belfast. He has really driven the “Post Gay” programme with his claims of having been “treated” for homosexuality himself. Davidson admits he didn’t have a “tactile” relationship with his father. He became a Christian when he was embraced by a speaker at summer camp. At bible college he had a homosexual relationship with a visiting professor. Davidson repressed his homosexuality for years until he moved to Britain in 1999, by which time he was married and had two children. Davidson had begun a secret life surfing gay websites and at this point he sought therapy. Davidson claims this therapy steered him back to heterosexuality. He believes homosexuality is a “Normal Development Aberration” where “Normal Development” is the process of reproduction between a man and a woman.

His Core Issues Trust makes it profoundly clear that homosexuality is not considered a “disease” but describing homosexuality as a “aberration” has offended many.

You can get all sorts of things on one of these. Amazon

Meanwhile Father Martin McVeigh, the priest under investigation after accidentally displaying pornographic images of men during a school meeting, has taken an immediate temporary leave of absence. Parents and parishioners were read a statement from the Catholic Church which exonerated Fr McVeigh, but many parishioners were not happy with the statement and have refused to allow their children to take part in any ceremonies conducted by him. The flash drive seems to have disappeared.

In the Independent Fiona Shaw reveals that telling your children you are gay is harder than telling your parents.

I know him, he’s… Photo: Clapham Guardian

A festival which hoped to promote the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community during the London Olympics has been cancelled.

Pride House at Clapham Common failed to secure sponsorship and headline artists. The venture was backed by an array of celebrities, ranging from Stephen Fry to Ben Cohen, and promised a vibrant line up of entertainment across a period of 18 days. There were high hopes it would raise the profile of Clapham, while creating awareness of homophobia in sport.

A political storm has erupted following the news it has been cancelled, with opposition councillors condemning Lambeth Council for pushing the plans ahead. Tory Councillor Shirley Cosgrave, Clapham Common ward councillor said: “We had concerns about the financial viability of the event and hope that lessons will be learnt about the need for rigorous checking of applications before such events are given the go-ahead.”

LGBT campaign group Stonewall said the cancellation of the festival will come as a blow to Britain’s gay community, with Olympics organisers failing to promote sexual diversity. A spokesperson said: “Unfortunately they have done little, if anything, to promote or reach out to the LGBT community. There is one openly gay paralympian show jumper on team GB. Given the Olympic Games legacy which said they would promote diversity, they are ignoring 3.7m around the country in sport.”

Undated photo: Alamy

Gay and bisexual men are neglected and discriminated against by a health service that tends to focus solely on their sexual health.

6,900 gay and bisexual men who had used NHS healthcare services in the last year were surveyed by Stonewall who found that a third had negative experiences. Confidence in confidentiality systems and lack of opportunities for discussion were so poor that the same proportion had not even come out to their GP or other staff. The men said they were more likely to be open about their sexual orientation with their manager and work colleagues than with healthcare professionals.

3% of gay men and 5% of bisexual men had tried to kill themselves compared with 0.4% of all men. 7% of gay and bisexual men had deliberately harmed themselves, compared with just 3% of all men.

Among younger gay and bisexual men aged 16 to 24, 6% had tried to take their own life and 15% had harmed themselves. 50% of those surveyed had experienced at least one domestic violence incident from a family member or partner since the age of 16, compared with 17% of all men. (This does not surprise Your Activist. Our page on domestic violence in gay relationships is one of our most downloaded pages.)

Many patients were discriminated against by doctors and nurses. “I overheard the reception staff say to a nurse: ‘The poof is here for his appointment,’” David, 23, told Stonewall. Jack, 37, described how his doctor wrote “homosexual” in capital letters on a letter he had to take to hospital after breaking his wrist. Every time a different doctor pulled up his details on the computer, the same tag would appear.

Patients report health professionals assuming that because they were gay, they must be HIV positive, and of their partner’s rights being ignored.

Your Activist has been lucky so far with his own medical professionals, but recognises that there are areas of the health service which need improvement and further training. Gay Activist thinks the NHS as a whole suffers from an Imperious and bossy culture which is unhelpful.

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7 April

Saturday 7 April 2012

Police officers detain a gay rights activist who tried to protest against local anti-gay legislation in St. Petersburg on April 5, 2012. AFP/Getty

Police in the Russian city of St. Petersburg have arrested two gay rights activists for breaching the new law that bans the “promotion of homosexuality” to minors. The two men were detained on Thursday after picketing against the law. St. Petersburg, Ryazan, Arkhangelsk and Kostroma regions impose fines for the dissemination of “gay propaganda” to minors. Gay rights activists in St. Petersburg have challenged the law in court, arguing that any mention of homosexuality can now be considered an offence under the bill.

Researcher Ghassan Kassisieh. Photo: Nick Cubbin/Sydney Morning Herald

Members of Australia’s gay Arabic community have been the victims of homophobic violence, verbal abuse or family pressure to act straight. The community’s elders and religious leaders say gays should be excluded or “corrected”. 37 gays, their families and community and religious leaders were interviewed in Ghassan Hassisieh’s study. Most respondents were Christians in Sydney. Seven of them said they went to a doctor, priest or imam to be cured of their homosexuality.

Nassim Arrage came out to his parents when he was 20 but he says his Lebanese father still does not accept it. “He wanted me to experience being with women before I made a final decision about being gay.” Mr Arrage says he has never been physically attacked, but he says it hurts to be overlooked. “Arabic culture very much prioritises getting married and having children, so anyone that doesn’t fit that mould, gay or otherwise, is kind of on the margins.”

Kellie says her mother and siblings know she is attracted to women, but she is not sure if she will ever tell her dad. “He suspects, though. He has come out and asked me if I’m a lesbian and technically I don’t identify as a lesbian, so I guess I denied it because there’s not really any point in causing a storm there. … One reason why I don’t talk to him about my same-sex attractiveness is because, well I never spoke to him about who I slept with before I slept with women, so why does he necessarily need to know? But when it comes to situations like, for example, when I finally got into a long-term relationship with a woman, it was a bit weird because my girlfriend would come over and spend time with me but I’d have to say to my father ‘oh this is my friend’ and kind of keep up that façade, which I think did put a bit of pressure on me and my girlfriend as well.”

When Antony Sher was a member of the Gay Sweatshop theatre company in the 1970s he managed to stay in the closet. “I look back and blush. We all agreed to do it on the basis that it was stated that not all the performers were gay so you didn’t know who was and who wasn’t. Then, in the mid-80s, when I did the British premiere of Harvey Fierstein’s Torch Song Trilogy, I still wasn’t out. I was doing press interviews about this great gay play that I felt so strongly about for a specific reason and I wasn’t saying it – it was an astonishing waste of energy. But that’s the kind of tangle you get into if you’re not out.” Sher finally came out in 1990, inspired by the example of Ian McKellen and Simon Callow. Yet, more than two decades on, despite strides in gay equality and the entertainment industry’s liberal reputation, many gay actors still fear that being open about their sexuality will damage their careers.

Equity has persuaded some actors to support a campaign helping gay actors who come out. “It’s about giving members the confidence to come out and if they do, that we’ll be there to offer them support,” said Max Beckmann, Equity’s equalities officer. “If actors experience homophobic bullying we would be able to raise that with the employer or if there was a case of member discrimination we would offer them legal assistance.”

Malcolm Sinclair. Photo: Teri Pengilley/Guardian

Malcolm Sinclair, Equity’s president, says coming out has a positive impact on actors’ work: “Acting at its finest is about telling the truth, so being honest about yourself is always going to benefit your craft.” Sher agrees. “When you see any great performer, you sort of see into that person’s soul. Your sexuality is profoundly a part of who you are. I think it’s very difficult to really reveal yourself in that exquisite way if you’re trying to hide part of yourself.”

Ben Bradshaw. Photo: David Rose

Ben Bradshaw, the former culture secretary, thinks we have already won equal rights with the introduction of civil partnerships and “never needed the word ‘marriage’ “. The Labour MP thinks the Prime Minister’s motives are simply to try to show that the Conservatives have changed. Tony Blair’s decision to introduce civil partnerships had given same–sex couples all the legal protection they needed, he told reporters for the Washington Post, reported by the Telegraph. “This is more of David Cameron trying to drag the Conservatives kicking and screaming into the modern world. Of course, we’ll support it, but this is pure politics on their part. This isn’t a priority for the gay community, which already won equal rights. We’ve never needed the word ‘marriage,’ and all it’s done now is get a bunch of bishops hot under the collar. We’ve been pragmatic, not making the mistake they have in the US, where the gay lobby has banged on about marriage.”

Mr Bradshaw, there are many in the UK gay community who have not taken advantage of civil partnerships because (a) we had already made the necessary legal arrangements to protect ourselves, and (b) we do not see why we should live in a form of apartheid.

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